Use zmq-anyio #3038

Job	Run time
check_release	1m 37s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	8m 19s
Make SDist	23s
link_check	3m 18s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.13)	8m 19s
build (windows-latest, 3.9)	5m 24s
test_docs	40s
build (windows-latest, 3.13)	8m 11s
Test Lint	55s
Test Minimum Versions	2m 48s
build (macos-latest, 3.9)	8m 24s
Test Prereleases	2m 33s
build (macos-latest, 3.13)	8m 21s
test_without_debugpy (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	4m 43s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.9)	4m 57s
build (macos-latest, 3.10)	8m 19s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.11)	8m 21s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.12)	8m 20s
build (windows-latest, 3.10)	5m 50s
build (windows-latest, 3.11)	8m 12s
build (windows-latest, 3.12)	8m 11s
Install from SDist and Test	3m 23s
coverage	1s
	1h 59m 29s

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