Use zmq-anyio #3040

Job	Run time
Test Lint	58s
check_release	1m 36s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	10m 51s
link_check	3m 35s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.13)	40m 0s
Make SDist	28s
build (windows-latest, 3.9)	5m 3s
build (windows-latest, 3.13)	11m 29s
test_docs	38s
Test Minimum Versions	2m 50s
build (macos-latest, 3.9)	17m 21s
build (macos-latest, 3.13)	35m 32s
Test Prereleases	2m 26s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.9)	4m 51s
test_without_debugpy (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	4m 35s
build (macos-latest, 3.10)	9m 52s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.11)	37m 19s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.12)	43m 45s
build (windows-latest, 3.10)	6m 14s
build (windows-latest, 3.11)	15m 32s
build (windows-latest, 3.12)	11m 36s
Install from SDist and Test	2m 35s
coverage	0s
	4h 29m 6s

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