Use zmq-anyio #3096

Job	Run time
check_release	1m 41s
Test Lint	58s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.11)	15m 26s
link_check	3m 25s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.12)	15m 28s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.13)	15m 25s
Make SDist	27s
test_docs	39s
build (windows-latest, 3.11)	5m 55s
build (windows-latest, 3.12)	8m 0s
Test Minimum Versions	20m 13s
build (windows-latest, 3.13)	9m 30s
Test Prereleases	20m 13s
build (macos-latest, 3.11)	15m 24s
build (macos-latest, 3.12)	15m 29s
test_without_debugpy (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	15m 41s
build (macos-latest, 3.13)	15m 30s
Install from SDist and Test	20m 4s
coverage	0s
	3h 19m 28s

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