Verbose error handling for non-valid duckarrays #13567

Job	Run time
Event File	3s
detect ci trigger	4s
ubuntu-latest py3.9	3m 8s
ubuntu-latest py3.12	3m 7s
macos-latest py3.9	3m 13s
macos-latest py3.12	3m 11s
windows-latest py3.9	3m 6s
windows-latest py3.12	3m 4s
ubuntu-latest py3.9 bare-minimum	1m 31s
ubuntu-latest py3.9 min-all-deps	3m 11s
ubuntu-latest py3.11 all-but-dask	3m 8s
ubuntu-latest py3.12 flaky	1m 11s
	27m 57s

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