fix!: explictly close rpc connections when changing base node (#6662)

Description
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fix!: explictly close rpc connections when changing base node
establish relay quickly
fix wallet connectivity logic

Motivation and Context
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Breaking Changes
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- [ ] None
- [ ] Requires data directory on base node to be deleted
- [ ] Requires hard fork
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BREAKING CHANGE: RPC protocol adds the "check bytes" periodically sent
by the server. These bytes will cause errors in older clients.

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Co-authored-by: Hansie Odendaal <pluto@tari.com>

Cargo.toml

@@ -72,9 +72,9 @@ tari_shutdown = { path = "infrastructure/shutdown" }
 tari_metrics = { path = "infrastructure/metrics" }
 
 # Use Tari's libp2p fork that adds support for Schnorr-Ristretto
-libp2p-identity = { git = "https://github.com/tari-project/rust-libp2p.git", rev = "3d918ccbf5ae1cbec0815a2156079b0fba4ba558" }
-libp2p = { git = "https://github.com/tari-project/rust-libp2p.git", rev = "3d918ccbf5ae1cbec0815a2156079b0fba4ba558", default-features = false }
-multiaddr = { git = "https://github.com/tari-project/rust-libp2p.git", rev = "3d918ccbf5ae1cbec0815a2156079b0fba4ba558" }
+libp2p-identity = { git = "https://github.com/tari-project/rust-libp2p.git", rev = "ed117cac06f99aa2a85b1bad8c911b155f4b4f5d" }
+libp2p = { git = "https://github.com/tari-project/rust-libp2p.git", rev = "ed117cac06f99aa2a85b1bad8c911b155f4b4f5d", default-features = false }
+multiaddr = { git = "https://github.com/tari-project/rust-libp2p.git", rev = "ed117cac06f99aa2a85b1bad8c911b155f4b4f5d" }
 
 anyhow = "1.0.89"
 async-trait = "0.1.83"