Explicitly disable P2P using launch, and pick up in state if a user will face issues.

[muellerzr]

What does this PR do?

This PR introduces checks to ensure that an exceedingly common problem in Accelerate issues can be automatically solved and/or a solution provided. On RTX 3090+, infinity-band and peer-to-peer communication was removed (so the entirety of the 4000 series and beyond). As a result, a large majority of issues opened up about hitting timeouts are related to the fact nvidia drivers do not automatically disable them. Thus, we should do so in Accelerate.

Fixes #2174
Fixes #2183
Fixes huggingface/diffusers#5923

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[BenjaminBossan]

LGTM overall, thanks. I've got some comments, but none are blockers.