[CI] Upgrade to abseil 20240116.1 (CMake only) #9391

Job	Run time
CMake clang 15 (maintainer mode, async)	13m 48s
CMake clang 15 (maintainer mode, abiv2)	14m 19s
CMake gcc 13 (maintainer mode, async)	6m 37s
CMake gcc 13 (maintainer mode, sync)	6m 57s
CMake test (without otlp-exporter)	4m 49s
CMake test (with abseil)	5m 7s
CMake clang 15 (maintainer mode, sync)	14m 16s
CMake msvc (maintainer mode)	7m 13s
CMake msvc (maintainer mode) with C++20	9m 8s
CMake test (with opentracing-shim)	4m 37s
CMake test (without otlp-exporter and with async export)	4m 35s
CMake C++14 test(GCC)	4m 15s
Bazel noexcept	12m 2s
Bazel	12m 49s
Bazel with async export	13m 4s
Bazel valgrind	14m 49s
Bazel with external abseil	1m 9s
CMake do not install test (with otlp-exporter)	14m 17s
CMake install test (with abseil)	4m 31s
CMake test (with modern protobuf,grpc and abseil)	17m 46s
CMake test (build shared libraries with otlp-exporter and static gRPC)	13m 50s
CMake test (with otlp-exporter)	14m 35s
CMake C++20 test(Clang with libc++)	9m 32s
CMake C++17 test(GCC)	4m 46s
CMake C++20 test(GCC)	8m 39s
CMake C++23 test(Clang with libc++)	10m 2s
CMake C++23 test(GCC)	9m 10s
Plugin -> CMake	58s
Bazel nortti	14m 15s
Bazel on MacOS	16m 42s
Bazel asan config	15m 1s
Bazel tsan config	13m 4s
Benchmark	8m 18s
Code coverage	11m 55s
Copyright	6s
Format	17s
markdown-lint	11s
CMake -> exporter proto	12m 16s
Bazel Windows	21m 12s
Plugin -> CMake Windows	9m 49s
CMake (With async export) -> exporter proto	12m 0s
CMake -> exporter proto (Build as DLL)	27m 29s
DocFX check	43s
misspell	4s
	7h 1m 2s

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