Single Activity API changes (#534)

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**What changed?**
This PR  contains  a commutative feedback for single activity API:
* add 'jitter' fields to Reset and Unpause
* 'Flatten' unpause. Previous approach was marked as overcomplicated
* Add 'keep_unpause' flag to Reset. By default reset will also unpause
the activity.
* Remove no-wait flag. By default, if activity is in retry, they will be
scheduled immediately (*jitter)
* Add "activity type" as a routing parameter to every activity
operation. If activity type is provided - every pending activity of this
type will be paused/reset/updated/unpaused
* Update API descriptions to reflect those changes.

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**Why?**
Working on single activity API feedback from the design review.


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**Breaking changes**
Yes

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**Server PR**
[Add batch activity unpause. Single activity commulative
changes](temporalio/temporal#7169)